This is very effective one to one chat tool that is very popular.

Instant Messenger is an instant chat facility where you can speak one to one with other members online. This is a Premium Membership service. Simply click on the ‘I'm online' bubble which you will see on online lists when you are logged in and a pop up window will appear. It may take a few seconds for the Instant Messenger window to load with a photo of the other member and access to that member's profile. This window has a text bar which you should type into to begin a one to one conversation or chat.
You can use our Make a Date feature, another Premium function, to arrange to meet that member online for chat using Instant Messenger or our Skype chat facility which can be used with Skype open.